2 Corinthians 5:16 Wherefore henceforth know we no man after the flesh: yea, though we have known Christ after the flesh, yet now henceforth know we him no more.

We need to learn to see things as God sees them.  Pray for eyes to see.  If we see after the flesh, we are missing all that is important.  If we can see ministries, Christ in our brother and sister, then we see Christ as He really is.  Christ is Head of the Body in Heaven, and He is the Body on earth in each member of the Body.